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【作者简介】王倩楠,中国社会科学院社会发展战略研究院
【文章来源】《社会学评论》2024年第3期
【内容提要】“闺女家”是指以出嫁女儿为中心的直系组家庭,在女儿的生活中占据重要位置。女儿与娘家父母之间的亲密关系建立在以“心意”为基础的相扶相依之上,心心相系是两代人共同的期待。“闺女家”的出现是女儿与其父母积极建构的结果,体现了女性个体作为女儿在代际关系中和作为妻子在夫妻关系中两重主体性的上升,但这是女性通过“对自我要求加码”的方式来实现的。“闺女家”呈现出女儿与娘家父母关系的新变化,也折射出当代中国家庭面临的新挑战。“闺女家”处于女儿与娘家关系转型中的“阈限阶段”,女儿与其父母由此得以在家庭实践中获得更多协商与行动的空间,但同时当代中国家庭生活也有可能变得更为复杂。
【关键词】闺女家 / 独生女 / 心 / 母女轴 / 新家庭主义
【全文链接】http://src.ruc.edu.cn/CN/Y2024/V12/I3/235
The Emergence of“Daughter-Centered Lineal Family”: The Transformation of Intimate Relations between the Daughter and Her Natal Family
Abstract: The“daughter- centered lineal family”(Guinvjia) refers to a lineal family centered around their married daughter; it plays an important role in the daughter’s daily life. The intimate relations between the daughter and her parents build on mutual support and dependence based on“heart”; heart-to-heart connection is a shared expectation of two generations. The emergence of the “daughter-centered lineal family”is the result of the active construction of the daughter and her parents, and this reflects the rise of the dual subjectivity of women themselves as daughters in intergenerational relations and as wives in conjugal relations is crucial. On the other hand, women achieve this by increasing their self- demands.The“daughter- centered lineal family”presents new changes in the relations between the daughter and her natal family parents but also reflects new challenges that contemporary Chinese families need to face. Due to the“daughter-centered lineal family”being the“liminal phase”of the transformation of relations between the daughter and her natal family, they are able to gain more space for negotiation and action in family practice. However, contemporary Chinese family life has the possibility of becoming more complex.